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A woman is a difficult thing, because the situation you face at every stage you go through. At the age when her body changes and puberty time is reached in the box, every single girl feel the injustice of human nature. Typically, the distress of a man can never live by his mortality, such as pregnancy. Women are physically weaker than men, but also emotionally stronger than men. This is the advantage that women have with men.

Pregnancy is the beginning of a new generation of people. Meanwhile the mother suffers from strict diets and painful operation to give birth, just to put a healthy baby. After the baby is born, the mother also suffers from a difficult road, but rewarding parenthood. The mother stays late at night and can not, and a relaxing nap because of the time the baby needed milk. All these things can be difficult for women, but they endure, just to be a super mom, which is the essence of motherhood.
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The 26th President of the United States, Theodore Roosevelt said: “It is the tasks connected with the home that are the fundamental tasks of humanity … if the mother does not do her duty, there will either be no next generation, or a next generation that is worse than none at all.” The role of the mother in a family is more than just give birth to children. The mother is the most important discipline and teachers because they spend more time with the children every day, as the father.

What role for mothers to play a better education?

First Mothers as teachers

In the first three years of life, mothers play a key role in the teaching of children. During these early years of children are largely under the care of their mothers. It is in these first years of life, mothers with the support of colleagues and teach children to show the love that lays the foundation of a united family. The challenge is that more mothers are now working to support the secular family. Also, in some countries, many mothers are not educated. Mothers are always willing to contribute to a better education. You must work hard to learn. The efforts of the mother were rewarded greatly, as many mothers, the very real effort to train up the challenge as a teacher.
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Mother! One word full of meaning. Nine months of a mother containing the baby, nine months of mothers take us wherever he went, he was not tired even pay attention that there is a spirit that continues to flow even wait for our presence. And moreover when the birth came, lived and died in front of the eye, but he remains strong. Not to mention the two years he was feeding us, after that take care of us, and many others which we believe all of his service. We can not describe one by one. yes that is a mother, so that the proper course under the feet of a mother is no heaven. “Heaven lies under mother’s feet. (Reported by Imam Ahmad)

So who is the mother? Of course a mother is a woman, not man!

If a woman is married then he had to get ready to become a mother. Being a mother not only as a status of “mother”. Effect of very great mother to her children. In these days a lot of us see a child who is less affection from their mothers so that they do things that are not true.

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How a woman managed to carry out this noble task,  she needed to prepare several  factors that will determine the success, among them:

First, try to improve yourself.

This factor is very important, because how could a mother  educate their children to be good, if he himself has no goodness in him? An Arabic phrase of the famous saying,

فاقد الشيء لا يعطيه

“Something that did not have can not give anything.” [Quoted by Shaykh al-Albani in the book At-Tawassul, 'Anwa `uhu wa Ahkamuhu, pp. 74]

And, goodness and piety an educator very determine his success in directing their students to the good. Therefore, the scholars have emphasized the obligation of a state study that will serve as an educator in religion.

In a famous speech, the Imam Muhammad bin Sirin said, “Verily, science (which you learned) is your religion (which will guide you achieve piety), then examine from whom you take (knowledge), your religion.” [Prolegomena Saheeh Muslim, 1 / 12 ]

The important factor is what is one of the main reasons that made the companions of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam become the best people of this generation, in the understanding and practice of their religion. How could I not? Dai and educators they are prophets of the best and most noble man in the sight of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala, that our prophet Muhammad bin Abdillah sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam. Meaning this is signaled by Allaah in His Word,

وكيف تكفرون وأنتم تتلى عليكم آيات الله وفيكم رسوله

“How could (read: not likely) you (O the Prophet’s companions), (to) become an infidel, because of the revelations of Allah recited to you, and His Messenger, even in the midst of you (as coach).” ( QS. Ali Imran: 101).

Another example of the role of a good educator is the story mentioned in the biography of one of the priests from among tabi’in, Hasan ibn Abil Hasan al-Basri [He is a great and famous priest of the tabi'in "senior" (died at 110 H), has many virtues, so some of the scholars tabi'in menobatkannya as the most important. His biography contained in the book Tahdzibul Kamal: 6 / 95 and Siyaru A'lamin Nubala ': 4 / 563], when Khalid bin Shafwan [He is Abu Bakr ibn Khalid ibn al-Ahtam Shafwan Al-Minqari Al-Basri, a highly fluent in Arabic. His biography contained in the book Siyaru A'lamin Nubala ': 6 / 226] describes the properties of Hasan al-Basri told Maslamah bin Abdul Malik [He is Maslamah Abdil Malik bin Marwan bin Al-Hakam bin (d. 120 AH), a governor of the Umayyads, cousin of Umar bin Abdul Aziz and narrated hadith from him. His biography contained in the book Tahdzibul Kamal: 27/562 and Siyaru A'lamin Nubala ': 5 / 241], by saying, “He was the most suitable among all the hidden with all the ditampakkannya, the most appropriate words with actions, if she sat on an affair then she was standing on these matters …. ”

After hearing the explanation, Maslamah bin Abdul Malik said, “Enough (keteranganmu). How could a people will get lost (in their religion) if people like this (its properties) is in the midst of them? “[Siyaru A'lamin Nubala ', 2 / 576]

Hence, when a speaker complained to the Imam Muhammad Ibn Wasi ‘[He is Muhammad Ibn Wasi' ibn Jabir ibn al-Akhnas Al-Azdi Al-Basri (d. in 123 AH), a priest from the tabi'in "junior" devout worship and trusted in the hadeeth narrated. Muslim cleric issued a hadith in his Sahih Muslim. His biography contained in the book Tahdzibul Kamal: 26/576 and Siyaru A'lamin Nubala ': 6 / 119] about the advice he delivered at least influence in changing the character of the people who diceramahinya, Muhammad ibn Wasi’ said, “O so and so, according to my view, they are overwritten circumstances (not affected by the advice that you convey) the reason is none other than yourself, the real warning (advice) that if the discharge (sincere) from the heart then (be easy) into the liver (the people who heard ). “[The Book Siyaru A'lamin Nubala ': 6 / 122]

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Everyone in the world has a different opinion about what a hero is. They come in many shapes, sizes, have different characteristics, values, and beliefs. For me, a hero is someone who is willing to put a hundred percent effort into protecting you from pain. They will stop at nothing to provide you with the security of safety; and will share with you the knowledge required for survival. A hero doesn’t have to have impeccable character, high importance in society, or have a classic sandwich named after them in the local pub. A hero just needs to be someone who cares for your happiness and loves you for being yourself. My mother is my hero.

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Everyone of us owes very much of mother, our own mother. Our coming here on earth is because of her. No one of us rejects this fact. Therefore, we love, appreciate and gratitude to our mother. We can say that our own mother is the hero, the first hero for our lives.